I get asked the same questions a lot in Korea… especially questions about being married to a Korean man. The questions that foreigners ask me and the questions that Koreans ask me are not all the same. Foreigners tend to ask me questions like:
- How did you meet your husband?
- What do you like most about your husband?
- What do you not like about your husband?
- What is the most difficult part of being married to a Korean?
- What is the best part of being married to a Korean?
- What was the first year like?
- What have you learned?
- What advice do you have for someone thinking of getting married to a Korean?
And Koreans tend to ask me questions like:
- Where did you meet?
- Do you have children?
- Why not?
- What language do you communicate in?
- Why do you like your husband?
- Isn’t it hard?
- What did your parents say?
- What do you think of Korean men?
Is it just me, or do the foreigner’s questions sound more logical to you as well?
That actually kind of makes sense though considering the general differences between western and Asian cultures. Western cultures tend to focus more on logic and less on emotion, where as many Asian cultures have their roots in Confucius thought which makes them more concerned about relational things such as family and blood line.
Here are the two videos in which I address the questions asked by foreigners in Korea. Later I plan to do the same with the questions that Koreans ask me. However, I am quite busy these days and probably won’t get around to that for a couple of weeks. I’ll be making my Japan trip video first. Anyway, enjoy listening to me answer the 8 questions about my international marriage, and leave any more questions you have as a comment here or on my YouTube page: http://www.youtube.com/user/NanaCorea